Reading: Biblical Sexuality in Marriage I (The Video Slides)

Biblical Sexuality in Marriage I: King Attitudes by Henry Reyenga

Romance King

Servant Headship (Ephesians 5)

Develops her call and dominion (Gen. 1:28)

Full Confidence (Proverbs 31)

Continually Courting

Little gifts, go shopping

Romance King

Helps out and shows appreciation

Standing up for her (Loyalty)

Not Be the Know It all, fix it all

When asked, Be decisive

Old fashion chivalry

How To Treat Your Queen

She feels loved, cherished, protected, and the precious queen of the castle when you:

Support her God designed femininity by highly valuing her gifts and role in your family.

You set the stage for her to be called blessed

Proverbs 31:28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her:

She does not feel loved, cherished, protected, and the precious queen of the castle when you are:

Usually critical non-teachable male chauvinist egotistical non-servant typical flesh male

Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

She feels loved and cherished and protected-the precious queen of the castle...

when you communicate that your wife is the hottest perfect woman for you. There is no one else. There could be 700 beautiful women you could have, but you do not want them. You want her.

Song of Solomon 2:2 Like a lily among thorns is my darling among the maidens.

Your wife will feel loved, cherished protected, and the precious queen of the castle when you take interest with humble encouraging support for your wife's spiritual, emotional and physical health.

Your wife will feel loved, cherished, protected and the precious queen of the castle when the truth of the intangibles are there. The truth is known not only by what you say, but even more by what you really believe and do.

King Attitude from Song of Songs

• Don't crush her Spirit

Song of Solomon 1:9 (NIV)

I liken you, my darling, to a mare harnessed to one of the chariots of Pharaoh.

• Be a Romantic

Song of Solomon 6:4-5 You are beautiful, my darling, as Tirzah, lovely as Jerusalem, majestic as troops with banners. Turn your eyes from me; they overwhelm me. Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Gilead.

• Continually admire her beauty

Song of Solomon 2:14

Let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely.

Song of Solomon 4:1 How beautiful you are, my darling! Oh, how beautiful! Your eyes behind your veil are doves. Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Mount Gilead.

• Complete Captivation for your wife

Song of Solomon 4:6-7 Until the day breaks and the shadows flee, I will go to the mountain of myrrh and to the hill of incense. All beautiful you are, my darling; there is no flaw in you.